got to know of this theory from yvonne's blog. it is about people and categorising their friends on different rungs of the ladders. dun really noe whether to agree to what extent for the gals' part but i am so appalled by the ladder theory of the guys.

1stly, 1st law of the theory states that gals have 2 different ladders. Potential and friends. when gals meet guys for the 1st time, they are automatically categorised. when 1 is in the potential one, well, he has a chance to hook up this gal but if he is in the friends ladder. it ll be safer n better to stay as frenz. if he tries to get his leg on the other ladder. there are 2 possibilities:
1. good for him, he has promoted! but if the relationship does not turn up well, he will be banished totally and not even in the FRENZ ladder.
2. for the sake of the guy, he is warned and hinted that he is and never will be in the POTENTIAL ladder. he is asked to wake up his idea before he is banished from the ladder too. hahha..

hmm.. interesting rite?

ANYWAY, more interesting part follows, cos 2nd law of the theory states that for the guy's ladder is the amount of desire of wanting to have sex of that person. if the gal is SO, SO hot, then she will be high up of the ladder. ugly and fat girls will be clinging onto the lower rungs of the ladder waiting to be kicked out.

HELLOZ? if that is the case, i reallie pity fiona xie lehz. cos she is like in the top rung of so many ladders of us guys. y is there a stereotype that guys = sex. we are human beings and i believe that majority view gals as human beings and soulmates and not sex toys. if that is the case, dont barbie dolls save all trouble?

am i being too idealistic again? well, i noe that for some guys, they are hooked up cos the girls put them in the POTENTIAL ladder 1st. or they think that the particular gals are easy targets to be their girlfriends. i am not condemning all these, dun get me wrong. some couples live happily ever after but i still await for my perfect romance and the situation will not be as the above. u all may laugh at me, true! maybe all i need is a heartbreaking romance for me to move on and learn from ba. and maybe from then, all my ideals will be vanished into thin air. haha.

have i digressed? hahah. anyway, ya gals are respected souls and the soceity in singapore is still more conservative. so, OUR LADDERS (majoroty i believe) has nothing to do with our raging hormones.

back to the gals' ladders. well, i am not sure but i can say that NO WONDER for many couples out there, when they are asked how do u noe ur bf/gf, they will say friend's fren. hahah. cos when they are introed by the middlemen, the guys are already categorised into POTENTIAL ladders, so sparks fly!

so is it true, gals? hahaha. anyway, then i pity all ugly, fat, not so desirable men out there ( including me) cos we would never score points in 1st impression let alone be in POTENTIAL ladders. hahahhaa.

juz kidding. dun sue me!

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5:49 PM